Dealing with the trauma fast
Affairs have a traumatic effect on a relationship, so it is essential to deal with this trauma fast. Trauma counselling is all about asking the right questions, at the right time, and encouraging healthier, happier dialogue.
Repair After Affair is an online self-help relationship resource to assist couples who are experiencing affair trauma. Through a collection of ebook pages, real couple's stories and practical worksheets, this self-paced online course aims to help you better understand the trauma you are experiencing, and guide you through the healing process.
What you'll learn
This eight-chapter course, created by Louis Venter, helps you to work through:
What is an Affair
Having a shared definition of the affair and understanding the three dynamics at play: Secretiveness, Emotional Attachment & Erotic Energy Transferred.
The Three Stages of Affair Recovery
Learn to identify your stage and develop the necessary skills to move to the next stage.
Revisioning
Practical advice and discussion points of revisioning your relationship after an affair. Understand that revisioning is an ongoing process.
Goal Setting
Learn to prioritise emotional health and cultivate intimacy.
How it will help
I believe that healing is possible in relationships. It is a journey of mutual growth and transformation that requires commitment, dedication, and a willingness to understand both oneself and one's partner.
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Communicate more effectively. Learn how to listen with an open mind and express yourself clearly.
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Resolve conflict constructively. Discover healthier ways to navigate disagreements.
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Build a stronger bond. Deepen your connection and intimacy.
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Feel heard and understood. Create a safe space for open, honest communication.
What's included
8 Sections of Theory
Real Couple's Stories
26 Downloadable Worksheets
3+ Hours of Content
Price: R1,950
Is this course right for us?
This course is for couples who are:
In the early weeks after discovery and need a way through the first, hardest stretch.
Further along but still stuck - the affair ended, and something still hasn't healed.
Working with a therapist - and want to keep going between sessions.
Not ready to sit in a room yet - but ready to start somewhere private.
Both willing - this is work you do together, not one of you doing it for both.
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Questions couples often ask
Can a relationship recover from cheating?
Many do. Some couples come through it with a more honest relationship than they had before. It depends on both partners being willing to do the work - full accountability from the partner who strayed, and room for the betrayed partner to grieve without being hurried. It is rarely quick, and it is rarely tidy, but it is possible.
Can an online course help after an affair?
It can, alongside or between sessions. Repair After Affair gives you the structure - eight sections of theory, real couples' stories and worksheets so you can begin understanding what you're experiencing at your own pace, in private, at whatever hour you're awake.
