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Everyday connection

Most of a relationship is ordinary life: jobs, children, tiredness, the thousand small things that quietly pull two people apart. These articles are about staying connected through all of it - not because anything is wrong, but because connection needs tending.

Growing Together: How to Stay Connected When You're Both Changing

I describe healthy growth as room for two: your world, my world, and the space in the middle where we meet. In that space, no one should have to become smaller so the other can grow.

Louis Venter

15 hours ago4 min read

Finding Intimacy After Kids: A Guide for Couples

Struggling to find time and energy for intimacy after having kids? You’re not alone. This honest, practical reflection explores why connection changes after parenthood and how couples can gently rebuild it.

Louis Venter

May 84 min read